What Your Friends Are Saying Behind Your Back According To Your Zodiac Sign
It is both naive and humiliating to believe that your friends do not talk behind your back. Your friends do love you, which is why they chose to be your friends in the first place.
However, you are not perfect, and there are times when you frustrate them. If someone talks about you behind your back, it shouldn't come as a surprise to you because there's a good chance that you do the same thing.
If you have the guts, read on to find out what your friends are most likely saying about you behind your back, according to your zodiac sign.
Aries – You're dominant and selfish
Let's say you're at work and you're participating in a tedious and frustrating meeting. As an Aries, you don't like to wait. In this difficult environment, you might pride yourself on your tendency to pressure the competition until you get your way.
You are the only one who believes that you are an effective leader in making things work, despite the fact that everyone else agrees with you.
When you leave the room, everyone will be wondering why you are unable to listen. Even if your suggestions are among the best, people won't be willing to put their faith in you if they are unable to voice their opinions.
Put your own needs aside for a second and consider how you can contribute to the overall sense of ease experienced by the group.
Taurus – You're greedy and materialistic
You justify it by saying that you need to take care of yourself while maxing out your third credit card. You're going through a challenging time, so it's important that you prioritize taking care of yourself to feel better.
Since they eat well with you and enjoy the fruits of your expensive tastes and material desires, your friends will not initially complain about the situation.
Until you corner yourself or put yourself in an impossible situation. You won't even have time to realize it before you're destitute and nobody really cares about you anymore.
They get angry because you shared the good times with them, and they should return the favor. Your friends each have their own unique point of view.
You believe that you must learn to solve your problems without engaging in comforts that give you only temporary relief.
Gemini – You're sneaky and manipulative
There are times when your friends have difficulty loving you, Gemini. It's not that you don't want to do the right thing.
The issue is that they want to do the right thing and the wrong thing at the same time, and get away with it.
For example, you have a lot of love for your best friend, but her husband is quite handsome.
You're not actually in love with him; rather, you're just curious about how things might have turned out differently if he had met you first.
Just so you know, your friends know – and you won't get away with it.
Cancer – You're negative and depressing
“I just had a very pleasant encounter with Cancer. He is so sweet and so kind and made me feel extremely loved and cared for.”
I'll be honest with you: no matter what we talked about, conversations I had with Cancer always ended in the blackest pit of sadness.
They always managed to find a way to make whatever I was talking about into a depressing topic, no matter how hard I tried to make the subject matter something positive.
When I commented on how pleasant the weather was, Cancer responded, “It's global warming.” Or, if I commented on how tasty the lunch was, Cancer would respond by saying things like, “I can't believe how many animals died for us.”
Leo – You're demanding and self-centered
Your tendency to focus on yourself and your needs will bring about your downfall. In contrast to Aries, you have the patience to persevere through difficult circumstances and achieve your goals by any means necessary.
Leos use drama tactfully rather than impulsively. When your close friends talk about you behind your back, they don't always see that you're just asking for a lot because you have a lot to give in return.
You have the impression that you have unreasonable expectations of others or that you can't see past yourself. Maybe let someone else take the driver seat once in a while.
Virgo – You're too critical
It's just as likely that you're going behind your friends' backs as the other way around. You describe it as an act of love.
You want people to be their best selves, and you really believe that comes from a place of brutal, honest love.
Your unrealistically high standards of yourself are the root cause of your critical attitude toward others. You can hardly achieve this yourself, and yet other people hold you to it.
Although you might not think this is the case, the consensus among your friends is that it is.
Libra – You're deceptive and devious
At first glance, Libra's adaptability appears to be a desirable quality. You are able to adjust to any social circumstance, and you are willing to give people what you believe they want, but eventually, you realize that you don't know what others want.
Your willingness to please others is subliminal communication. However, you only know how to get what you want using the same subliminal method.
The problem is that you are not skilled. Your friends are aware of what you're trying to accomplish, and they wish that you would simply state what you want rather than carefully manipulating circumstances to meet your needs.
Libras rarely try to deceive anyone openly , but from an outsider's perspective, it's hard to tell.
Scorpio – You control and latch
In a manner that is similar to Libra, Scorpios favor indirect over direct conversation. What is the primary distinction between the two?
Scorpios have a clear understanding of their goals, the intensity with which they pursue those goals, and the lengths to which they are willing to stoop in order to achieve those goals.
People like to talk about how intimidating and powerful of an aura you give off as a Scorpio. Your tendency to be overly affectionate with others can be troubling, and you're not exactly trying to hide it.
Sagittarius – You're insensitive and cocky
Sagittarians are simply trying to have fun while riding the roller coaster of life. You are so determined to tell stories about it, even when things go bad.
However, there are times when you need to pull yourself together and acknowledge that this is real life and you need to live in it, not above it.
Your friends may consider it well-intentioned on your part as a Sagittarius to lighten the mood and keep things moving, but they may also find this immature and occasionally frustrating.
Capricorn – You're negative and snobby
You work very hard, and as a result, much of what you have is rightfully earned. However, Capricorns don't let anyone else get away with less.
Your friend mentions to you, on the morning of the important test, that she only got four hours of sleep the night before. You let her know that you haven't gotten any sleep at all.
Others will find it off-putting and unnecessary to be competitive if you emphasize how badly you want to achieve your goals.
Your friends are not trying to discredit your dedication; however, they are pointing out how miserable you are. This is not a race or a competition.
Aquarius – You're alienated from reality
Aquarius, you're the epitome of a person whose most admirable trait also serves as their greatest weakness.
People adore you because of your commitment to self-sufficiency, your willingness to explore new territory, and the rich inner life you've cultivated.
They hold a grudge against you because of your lack of transparency and your inability to understand their own individual worldviews.
Your friends, and especially the people you care about the most, bemoan your hot-and-cold emotional nature, which is largely due to your inability to see things from a different perspective.
Pisces – You're impressionable and self-pitying
Pisces are depicted as the sensitive dream child who lives in the ether. They are also compared to delicate flowers that must not be disturbed lest they break down and cry.
You pray that everyone takes this literally because you know better than anyone that sensitivity can be used tactically. Just so there is no confusion, people do not necessarily view you as being manipulative. You just have many coping mechanisms.
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