Why You Get Rejected, According to Your Zodiac Sign
When was the last time you experienced a breakup? Do you have a friend who seems incapable of maintaining a relationship with anyone for an extended period of time or are you that person?
Being turned down for something is almost never a positive experience. At some point or another, it has happened to each and every one of us.
However, if you're constantly getting dumped by different people and hearing, “It's not your fault, it's mine!” over and over again, it might be time to be truthful with yourself about why this keeps happening.
Perhaps there are times when the issue is actually with you. There is no reason to feel guilty about that because every single one of us has our share of shortcomings.
There is no guarantee that a relationship will be successful, and unfortunately, heartbreak is an inevitable part of life. Astrology suggests that your zodiac sign may be to blame for your unfavorable experiences in romantic relationships.
Keep reading to find out why, according to your zodiac sign, you're likely to experience a high number of rejections.
Aries
Aries is romantic and incredibly confident as a partner. This fire sign approaches challenges in life with a strong sense of purpose.
You are someone who likes to take the initiative, and this trait carries over into your relationships. You are capable of achieving any objective, regardless of how difficult it may seem.
You are known to have very little patience and if you believe that someone is disrespecting you, you immediately jump into conflict mode.
In the event that something occurs that makes you feel uneasy, you will communicate your discomfort in an open and direct manner right away.
Patience and kindness are necessary components of a healthy relationship, in addition to a passionate nature. Because you frequently have little patience for your partner, you have the ability to make them feel as if they should apologize.
It is not surprising that a person will eventually end their relationship with you if they believe that they are being ignored on a regular basis.
Taurus
You are complete when it comes to romance. Because Venus is your ruling planet, this should not come as a surprise. Your significant other will receive a plethora of gifts, as well as lots of smooches, hugs, and romantic getaways.
However, as an earth sign, you are quite stubborn and have a difficult time apologizing when you are in the wrong. When you've made up your mind about something, there's no room for negotiation.
It is wonderful when you and your partner both want the same thing, but it is awful when you both have different ideas. When someone's opinion is ignored, it's never a pleasant experience for them.
Dealing with someone who is unwilling to look at things from a different perspective is so frustrating that it can lead to the end of a relationship.
Gemini
You won't have any trouble finding a partner if you're a Gemini, but you might have a hard time keeping a relationship going.
Because of how open you are, people are drawn to you. They imagine having a good time, lots of energy, and exciting new experiences with you.
However, the joke that Geminis have two different personalities in a relationship holds some truth to it. You have an insatiable curiosity about everything, and you yearn for fresh experiences.
Your partner will feel like they are nothing special as a result of this. You have a poor pattern of making your partner feel left out.
After the initial euphoria of a new relationship has worn off, your significant other will start to view you as unstable. Because of this, they will eventually decide to end the relationship with you.
Cancer
It is common knowledge that Cancer is the zodiac sign that is the most emotional and caring. You never fail to remember anything, and you celebrate every significant life event like birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays.
Being a person on whom other people can rely is something that is very important to you. However, due to the fact that you are an emotional person, you can be challenging to deal with at times.
When you're in a bad mood, you never bring it up to your partner, despite the fact that you're pretty good at reading other people's emotions.
It is unreasonable to assume that they will be able to determine what the issue is, and if they are unable to do so right away, you will become even more irritable than you already are.
In addition to this, you experience love at first sight and are quick to become dissatisfied if your partner does not live up to the ideal you have created in your mind.
People break up with you because of your frequent mood swings, your tendency to wallow in self-pity, and your occasional selfishness.
Leo
Leo's ego is the obstacle standing in the way of him and the love of his life. You should be aware that being in a relationship with you is comparable to being with a well-known figure.
Your inherent confidence and charisma make you the center of attention wherever you go. When it's time for your partner to be the center of attention instead of you, things can get really ugly in a relationship.
At first, dating you is exciting, but after a while, things can get really bad. You simply cannot share the spotlight with other people.
You will continue to argue even if you are aware that you are in the wrong in order to persuade your partner that you are correct. This is an easy way to get people to break up with you.
Virgo
Virgos are very practical people. Because you want the people in your life to be with you for a very long time, your cautious nature serves you well when it comes to picking a partner.
On the other hand, this may cause people to lose interest. You are known for your healthy dose of skepticism. You never show enough trust in a relationship and criticize your partner a lot.
Because you don't really let anyone into your inner circle, getting to know you is a difficult process that requires a lot of patience. You have doubts about your own feelings as well as the commitment of your partner.
Trust issues are an issue that needs to be worked on, but unfortunately, you show very little motivation to work on them. Because of how draining it is for them, eventually, this will cause your partner to walk away from the relationship.
Libra
You are a true idealist, Libra. You feel burdened by conflicts, so you try to avoid them at all costs. You have a poor pattern of always putting your partner's needs before your own, even when they don't specifically ask for your help.
As time goes on, you begin to despise the relationship. This will eventually result in a breakdown in communication, at which point you will be completely unresponsive to any kind of compromise.
You are also very good at “fixing” things and can identify issues even when there are none. Quite frequently, you will attempt to “fix” your partner, despite the fact that he will, of course, not like that.
It is impossible to maintain a relationship with someone if you continually make them feel bad by trying to fix them while also communicating poorly.
Scorpio
A Scorpio partner is one who is devoted, trustworthy, and brimming with passion. You want to be in a relationship that is passionate but you don't want to talk to anyone about how you feel.
Being in a relationship with you is like riding a roller coaster, you never know what's going to happen next. It's so chaotic, yet very exciting.
You have significant trust issues, particularly regarding the loyalty of your partner, which results in a great deal of jealousy on your part. You have difficulty displaying vulnerability but yearn for intimacy with your partner, which is ironic.
Your irrational fears cause you to become possessive, and as a result, you begin to exert control over your partner about because you want to decide everything for them. There's no way your partner will put up with this behavior, so they break up with you.
Sagittarius
Sagittarius's primary goal in life is broadening their horizons and experiencing new things. You don't put up with anyone trying to get in the way of anything you want to accomplish.
You have no room in your life for anyone who tries to bring you down. Your upbeat and carefree demeanor attracts a large number of people, but you're not one to make commitments lightly, so it'll be some time before you give all of your attention to a single individual.
The fact that you have difficulty taking certain things seriously may be one of the reasons why people decide to break up with you.
You don't like having emotional discussions about significant matters. When there are serious problems that need to be addressed, you try to solve them with humor, which your partner does not like.
Because of how quickly this can become frustrating, you shouldn't be surprised if an ex broke up with you because of it.
Capricorn
Capricorns have a reputation for being among the most serious of all zodiac signs. It is essential for you to build a long-term relationship.
You despise the idea of wasting your time going on meaningless dates that lead nowhere. People who live their lives with a bit more spontaneity may find it difficult to deal with this behavior.
Sometimes it seems like you're not even interested because you're too busy making new plans. Your tendency to bottle up your emotions in an effort to play the “tough guy” in a relationship means that romance is not one of your strong suits.
Your partner will likely start to speculate about your true intentions as a result of this. When your partner feels you are cold, calculated, and emotionally distant from them, a breakup should be anticipated as a likely outcome.
Aquarius
One of Aquarius' best qualities is their desire to always express their thoughts and opinions. Because you are such a people-person air sign, you never seem to be alone.
Everyone has a crush on you and wants to either date you or be your friend. Even with all of these people around you, you still have very high standards.
You value quiet time for reflection and rejuvenation, despite the fact that you are naturally extroverted. From the outside, this may give the impression that you have lost interest, which may leave your partner feeling abandoned.
This first impression, when coupled with your sharp tongue, can end the relationship. Nobody enjoys being put down by someone who always feels the need to say what's on their mind, regardless of how their words will affect others.
Pisces
Pisces, you are a sensitive and passionate person. When you fall in love with someone, you want to shower them with all of the good things that the world has to offer.
However, you have a terrible pattern of building a fantasy about your significant other, which is a very bad habit. It appears as though you are more in love with the concept of the perfect soulmate than you are with the actual person standing right in front of you.
You fail to recognize the shortcomings that your partner possesses, and as a result, you fail to remember any of the issues that arise within the relationship.
You have an unrealistically difficult time letting go of your idealized picture of how things ought to be. You rarely discuss how you are feeling with your partner because most of the time you are clueless about what emotions you are experiencing.
When you do finally understand what's going on, you throw an overwhelming amount of information as well as feelings all at once.
Everyone harbors the secret desire to be loved and appreciated for the person they truly are. It is not surprising that someone who is in a relationship with you might choose to end it if they believe that you do not recognize them for who they truly are.
How Do You Change This?
There is no such thing as a permanent personality trait. Everyone has bad habits and is prone to making errors. There is always room for improvement, whether you are stubborn, hard to argue with, or a poor listener.
Unfortunately, there are times when the people we love suffer because of our ways. The first step toward improvement is developing the habit of being truthful with oneself.
If you are self-aware, you will be in a better position to pinpoint your weaknesses and take steps to improve in those areas. If your partner points out a negative pattern of behavior, you should be less defensive about it.
Not every partner is an ideal partner. When you are confident that you gave it your all and made every effort to get better, but someone is still unhappy with you despite these efforts, it is time to move on.
There will always be someone who loves you and accepts you for who you are while still showing you affection in the same way.
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Helen is the founder of Spiritualify.org where she covers all things astrology — from horoscopes and zodiac guides to retrograde alerts and moon updates. She also writes about other mystical lifestyle topics, such as numerology, crystal healing, tarot, dream interpretation, and more.