Why You’re Unlucky In Love, Based On Your Zodiac Sign

There are some people who, despite their best efforts, are simply incapable of forming meaningful relationships with others.

Either they are seeing the wrong person at the wrong time, or they are simply making the same mistakes in a relationship again and again.

They just can't seem to control their emotions, and on top of that, they have a tendency to be self-destructive at times, which explains why most of their relationships end in failure.

Few people know that they have very often sabotaged themselves in various situations. They don't do it on purpose, of course, rather they end up being their own worst enemies unconsciously. 

If you are unsuccessful in love, it is easy to subconsciously sabotage yourself. Consciously you may not be afraid of love and may want it with all of your heart, but on a subconscious level, you are afraid of it.

Look at your current relationship or your most recent one if you're currently single.  What problems kept coming up? Can you identify situations where you have rejected love?

Take note of the times when you have behaved badly because of your own fears. It is essential to look within and be honest. You must also look back at your childhood.

Our understanding of love is shaped not only by our own relationship with our parents but also by their relationship with us.

Did your parents limit your love or do things that lowered your self-confidence and self-esteem? Did they teach you that you are a lovable person?

All of this contributes to the formation of attitudes regarding the relationship, and when you are insecure about yourself, you may experience feelings of unfair rejection and betrayal, which may cause you to react inappropriately and destroy your relationship.

In addition to these psychological factors, people who were born under specific zodiac signs tend to repeat the same mistakes in relationships.

 

 

Aries

Although it can be challenging to be in a relationship with an Aries because of their strong sense of independence and freedom, there is another challenge that they must overcome, and that is their ego.

These individuals have an ongoing need for worship and attention; when they are denied either, they become very angry and bitter.

They have a need for their partner to make them feel loved, and as soon as he begins to pull away from them, they will argue and act out in inappropriate ways.

Aries need to be the top priority in a partner's life; if they aren't, they will feel betrayed. It is anger that rules their lives, and fear of abandonment that chases them.

As a result, many Aries end a relationship with a fight before their partner hurts them.

 

 

Taurus

When they love someone deeply, Taureans shower that person with affection, but their love is never completely unconditional.

They are very jealous romantic partners, and they expect to be rewarded for all of the love that they give with unending loyalty.

Their partner must love only them as they love only him, and they will not tolerate their partner paying too much attention to others.

Their jealousy can sometimes reach such a level of obsession that their partner finds them to be intolerable and they lose interest.

Their main shortcoming in relationships is that they have an insufficient amount of trust in their partner and a persistent fear that others will hurt them.

 

 

Gemini

Geminis are among the most desirable partners because they are exceptionally intelligent and graceful; however, they have a hard time maintaining relationships.

They simply shower their partner with affection from the very beginning, and because they are by nature very proud people, they never criticize their partner for doing something that they find unappealing.

They don't talk about the issues that they have in their relationship nearly enough, and as a result, they suffer in silence.

They expect that their partner will recognize on their own that there is a problem, which almost never happens and is a bad way of dealing with problems in a relationship.

Since a healthy relationship requires participation from both parties, it is imperative for Geminis to put aside their pride and communicate their needs more precisely.

 

 

Cancer

People born under Cancer often struggle with getting stuck in a toxic relationship due to the fact that their feelings prevent them from escaping an unhealthy and abusive partnership.

When you care deeply about another person, you are willing to sacrifice everything for the chance to spend your life with that person.

They consistently commit the error of believing that their abusive partner will eventually change, despite the fact that this never happens.

They always end up in the same abusive relationship because they are unable to set healthy boundaries.

Nothing will ever change and they will continue to have bad luck in love until they realize that an abusive partner will never change and that they deserve better.

 

 

Leo

Leos are arrogant and they believe that they control every little thing that happens in the relationship; however, the one thing that they really cannot control is their partner's emotions.

They have a tendency to cling to their exes or partners who aren't really faithful to them, even after the relationship has ended.

This occurs due to the fact that they are too proud to admit that someone cheated on them, and they want to regain their pride by obtaining what they believe to be rightfully theirs.

Fighting for someone who is not even worth the fight is the worst thing anyone can do, and this is the reason why they are often unlucky in love.

If Leo wants to find happiness in life, they must focus on the people who genuinely care about them and who love them deeply.

 

 

Virgo

When it comes to love, Virgo is extremely idealistic, and when a partner does not obey her standards, things can become very difficult.

These people will sometimes hold their partners to expectations that are impossible to meet, and when they're not satisfied, they will start a fight.

They make a big deal out of every little mistake their partner makes while at the same time considering themselves to be perfect, which is the main reason why they are unlucky in love.

Virgos also have a tendency to end their relationship with their partner if their partner is not as perfect as they had hoped they would be.

If Virgos refuse to acknowledge that nothing is ever perfect and that they themselves aren't perfect either, then they should expect being single for a while.

 

 

Libra

Libras struggle to be in committed relationships because of their outgoing nature and their desire to be admired by many people simultaneously.

They find the idea of being with just one person unappealing, and even when they are in a relationship, they can't help but wonder if there is someone better out there.

Even though they are not the ideal people to be in a long-term committed relationship with, many try one with them as they can be very charming.

Libras have the potential for a meaningful relationship, but they can't really adjust to just one person.

If they don't give up their playboy lifestyle, they'll never find their true love, and they'll spend the rest of their lives being lonely and unhappy in relationships.

 

 

Scorpio

Scorpios' possessive nature is one of the main reasons why they're so unlucky in love.

They love their partner with all of their hearts, but to a point of obsession, as evidenced by the fact that they won't let their partner do anything without them.

When they catch another person flirting with their partner, they instantly get very angry, and they will do anything to bring that other person down and take revenge on their partner.

They are very toxic people because they make their partners pay for everything they do. When it comes to love, a Scorpio needs to learn to be less possessive because things will never turn out the way they imagine.

 

 

Sagittarius

Sagittarius is so preoccupied with everything else going on that they simply forget about love.

They have a wonderful excitement for life, but when it comes to pursuing a committed relationship, they often feel that they are not mature enough to do so.

They feel constricted and think they lost their freedom when confronted with big responsibilities, such as love. As a result, they lose interest in being in a relationship.

Their immature spirit, which perpetually yearns for independence, is their biggest obstacle, and they must conquer it if they ever hope to experience true love.

They will eventually come to the conclusion that, for the sake of true love, it is acceptable to give up some of their freedom.

 

 

Capricorn

Capricorns are known for having a God complex, and this is the biggest obstacle that prevents them from finding love.

They have the mentality that they are more important and superior to everyone else, which can be very exhausting for their partner.

They never want to do certain things when they are not in the mood, and they never leave their comfort zone for the sake of their relationship.

Capricorns think their needs are more important than those of others, and that everyone else's needs and opinions should conform to their own.

They need to be more considerate of the feelings of their partner; otherwise, they will never have a stable relationship and will always be unlucky in love.

 

 

Aquarius

Those born under Aquarius have difficulty moving on from past relationships. It is hard for Aquarius to fall in love, but once they do, they are completely devoted to their partner for the rest of their lives.

They try to be with her a million times, even though the relationship fails every time. These individuals need to understand that there are times when letting go is easier than holding on, and they do exactly that.

Things will start to get better for them once they realize that they just have to move on and find love again.

 

 

Pisces

The fear that they get hurt by the person they love the most is the reason why Pisces is unlucky in love.

They love deeply and intensely, and as a result, they develop an irrational fear of being separated from the person they love.

For this reason, they try to appear as distant and cold as possible, even when the opposite is how they really feel.

Their partner does not tolerate this attitude, and as a result, they often leave them because they feel unloved.

Pisces need to be more courageous and open themselves up to love; otherwise, they will have a very difficult time.